The mindset we have is a choice. Believe it or not, we get to choose whether we see the glass as half empty or half full. The truth of the matter is that mindset is a tricky subject to talk about because not everyone is on the same wavelength. Some just don’t want to hear it (be happy sunshine!) and others relish in this brighter way of living. I’ll share with you my perspective based upon where life experience has led me.
Most of us have lived through lots of highs and lows. We survived the storms that never seem to end, and seen the bright shiny rainbows that light up our sky. What is it that makes a Diva take her experience and transcend it into a beautiful lesson that shines through as incredible wisdom and serves her community? It’s her mindset. If she knows in her heart that everything is going to be OK – no matter what – and that the worst thing that could happen is still tolerable, she’ll skate over the rough bumps in life’s road way more easily.
It’s the chain of circumstances in our lives & our response to them that create our mindset!
What is our other option? Feeling down and out, defeated and depressed – way more often than you’d like. These emotions are inevitable at times based upon what we’re dealing with, but the reality is that we CAN turn that frown upside down and see the light in what appears to be a dark space. Even a flickering light (aka a hopeful mindset) is better than a super dark hole that leaves us feeling stuck. It’s up to me, you, and every other amazing woman who wants to take full responsibility for creating her epic life! If our outlook is going to change, it’s up to me/you.